Elena Burnetts Blog - Why are men losing interest in women? - September 23, 2015 21:15
Why Committed Men Lose Interest ~ The ONLY 3 Reasons
Please refresh the page and retry. M en are the first to lose interest in sex during long-term relationships, a study has found. Men are put off of sex because they feel insecure and because they worry about losing their freedom within a relationship. An analysis of 64 studies on sexual desire conducted since the s found that men also have unrealistic expectations of their appetite and their bodies as they get older. The University of Kentucky study found that unlike women, men often lose interest in sex when they are unhappy or insecure.
When I first started dating, I believed attraction was an art. A beautiful mosaic that two people painted together, each with their unique brush strokes and favorite hues. I still believe this to some degree. This view of attraction as art suited me in the early years. I naturally gravitated towards the humanities and would run rapidly from anything that required small numbers in even tinier boxes hello, excel! But as I started dating more and reflecting on those experiences, I came to a critical realization: there are more patterns in attraction than I originally realized.
Why did he lose interest when things seemed to be going so well? This question is all too common. This is how it all usually goes down. You meet a guy and feel the proverbial spark. The chemistry is strong, you connect, you have fun.
~ the factors that decide whether he stays ~
Then, after what feels like a super intense connection and budding relationship, suddenly he cools WAY off. Now, there are as many reasons why anyone might pull away from a budding, new relationship as there are stars in the sky. However, I want to talk about one of the most common reasons why men lose interest in new relationships that previously seemed promising. The guy might have turned her off somehow, he might have pressed for sex too soon, or she might not be physically attracted to him. Whatever it is, she usually knows exactly why she's lost interest.