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What Does It Mean To Be Self-Centered?
It's no wonder why self-centeredness is typically viewed as the most unappealing personality trait in a potential friend or partner. Most of us struggle to maintain a sense of compassion and understanding toward others. Here is a look into the world of the self-centered person and an explanation of common personality traits associated with self-centeredness.
As a poet, therapist, and observer of human behavior, Janis has a keen awareness of what makes people tick and behave the way they do. Self-centered people are easy to identify but difficult to handle. They love to talk, mainly about themselves, and they can be quite dismissive about the point of view of others. Absorbed by their grandiosity, they look down on others with an air of superiority that is frequently displayed with a "holier than thou" attitude. This type of person is also defined by others as being incredibly annoying. We have all dealt with them in our personal relationships, brief acquaintances, in the work place, and on the streets.
How to Identify the Self-Absorbed People Who Annoy You
Picture this. You have been in a relationship for a few months, and you begin to notice your new boyfriend spends a lot of time talking about himself and his accomplishments. Your beautiful new girlfriend seems to look around every room she enters. Full of herself, she waits for heads to turn and approving looks to come her way. When you share a success or an exciting event in your life, inevitably the conversation turns to your partner's self-absorption with their achievements or more thrilling adventures. Their massive ego needs your constant approval, accolades, and attention, but they rarely return those gifts to you. It has become a one-man or one-woman show in which your partner is the leading character, and you are merely the supporting cast or cheering audience.
What do you think about all day? If it is mostly about you, then you may suffer from self-centeredness. People consider self-centeredness to be a negative character trait. If you are self-centered, the first thing to do is to not beat yourself up about it. If you do, your shame will just give you another reason for negative self-preoccupation. Instead, see your self-centeredness as a symptom of an underlying angst—the felt sense that you are somehow insufficient or unsafe.
What is self centered personality disorder? Self centered personality disorder, also known as narcissistic personality disorder, is characterized by an exaggerated degree of self-centeredness and self importance in conjunction with a complete lack of empathy for the feelings of others. Patients exhibiting classic traits of narcissistic personality disorder usually have problems forming relationships with others and the disorder can affect many different areas of their life, including work and family. The exact cause of the disorder is unknown, but certain childhood experiences are thought to contribute to the problem. These include a lack of adequate parenting, over indulgence from the parent coupled with excessive praise, plus unrealistic feedback for achievements.